iphoneAfter dating multiple men who are infrequent texters, I know how frustrating that can be.  You sometimes find yourself waiting up to two days for a response to a simple text message or they just go MIA for days, or even weeks, and then resurface when it suits them.

I met a man who texted me every single day, and not just every day, multiple times each day.  Sometimes I would receive two or three text messages before I had even had a chance to read the first one.  I never sent him the first text….I never had to.  Whether the feeling was mutual or not, I simply didn’t have time to, because before I even had a chance to think about texting him, he would have texted me.  Sometimes it was like he would just find an excuse to text me. Like….. “hey, did you leave your sunglasses here?”   “ummmm no I have never been to your house!”.

The frequent texters are obviously really into you, which is wonderful.  But unfortunately when men become clingy we get turned off, even if they are the nicest men in the world.

Really, there seems to only be two types of men when it comes to this.   ‘The Compulsive Texter’ or the ‘One you have to chase’.  I find myself complaining to my girlfriends with either one of these guys.  When I’m with the ‘one you have to chase’, I feel upset and uneasy and I wish I was with a guy who would always text and call me.  Then of course, when I’m with ‘The Compulsive Texter’ I become turned off and uninterested.

Is it just me? Or is it women?! – We complain when we aren’t being contacted and we complain when we do!

Ladies, I would love to read your stories on this topic! – If you any, please comment or email me via the Contact Page.

Until next time… Xx

3 Comments on Call Me Maybe?

  1. SMP
    April 4, 2015 at 1:25 pm (4 years ago)

    Unfortunately even compulsive texters can be serious players. I had one that text me 20 odd times a day but it turns out if I didnt reply quick enough or was busy working for a couple of hours he would get bored and text other girls as well. He then went further still and when we argued he’d go off and meet up with one of these many girls… worse still he used to invade my facebook and question md over men who had written to me years before I met him… the answer here in my mind is there must be a happy medium somewhere 🙂 if not keep looking til there is

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  2. Life of Pia
    April 4, 2015 at 1:36 pm (4 years ago)

    I’ve just had a guy (who I’ve never met, might I add) text me after a year! I have been ignoring his texts, yet he has persisted. My friend called it “cute”, I thought it was more “crazy”. 😉

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  3. mimi
    April 4, 2015 at 4:14 pm (4 years ago)

    I think that’s where communication is needed. I dated a guy who would always text so I never got to text first but that’s okay. I felt flattered but also I started to feel like txting was our only communication line so I talked to him about it. He slowed down with his messaging to 1 good morning beautiful text and a good night call where we talk about everything that happened during the day or thoughts we would like to share on things or interesting things. But on other days when I feel I need a day alone I ask for it and he respects my wishes. All you need is communication. If he is pushy about wanting to know where you are 24/7 then I would definitely re- think things.

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