After dating multiple men who are infrequent texters, I know how frustrating that can be. You sometimes find yourself waiting up to two days for a response to a simple text message or they just go MIA for days, or even weeks, and then resurface when it suits them.
I met a man who texted me every single day, and not just every day, multiple times each day. Sometimes I would receive two or three text messages before I had even had a chance to read the first one. I never sent him the first text….I never had to. Whether the feeling was mutual or not, I simply didn’t have time to, because before I even had a chance to think about texting him, he would have texted me. Sometimes it was like he would just find an excuse to text me. Like….. “hey, did you leave your sunglasses here?” “ummmm no I have never been to your house!”.
The frequent texters are obviously really into you, which is wonderful. But unfortunately when men become clingy we get turned off, even if they are the nicest men in the world.
Really, there seems to only be two types of men when it comes to this. ‘The Compulsive Texter’ or the ‘One you have to chase’. I find myself complaining to my girlfriends with either one of these guys. When I’m with the ‘one you have to chase’, I feel upset and uneasy and I wish I was with a guy who would always text and call me. Then of course, when I’m with ‘The Compulsive Texter’ I become turned off and uninterested.
Is it just me? Or is it women?! – We complain when we aren’t being contacted and we complain when we do!
Ladies, I would love to read your stories on this topic! – If you any, please comment or email me via the Contact Page.
Until next time… Xx